Facebook and child-spanking fetish groups

Child-spanking fetish groups have managed to find a place on Facebook. On a platform where a bare nipple or buttock is beyond the pale, these spanking groups are not considered illegal, immoral, or even suspect. In fact, because spanking children is perfectly legal in the United States, Facebook allows these groups to gather under the premise of biblically inspired discipline. We’re asking Facebook to address this problem by alerting their moderators to how discipline groups can provide cover for those who fetishize child abuse, and by updating their Community Standards if necessary.

What Jillian Keenan discovered

On September 27, 2019, author and spanking expert Jillian Keenan posted a YouTube video about the child-spanking fetish groups she’d discovered on Facebook. In it, she details how she managed to get hold of the plans for a “workshop” that would demonstrate spanking techniques on bare-bottomed children and teens, and children spanking each other. The program lists the age ranges for each “workshop”—which smacks of catering to chronophilias as well as the child-spanking fetish.

A few “highlights” from the program:

children/teens will bare themselves from waist down or totally nude and parents demonstrate how they spank their children (5-10 minutes per parent/child)

9:30 – 11:30 Prayer/Role playing (Children will bare themselves and demonstrate responsible spanking with each other)

You can watch the entire video here:

A consensual spanking fetish is not the same as a child-spanking fetish

As a spanking expert, Keenan is well-aware of the nuances that might traverse the lines between consensual kink and abuse between adults—and she is also aware of what constitutes child sexual abuse.

Facebook said the group didn’t violate their Community Standards, even though those standards expressly prohibit “advocating for… Acts of physical harm committed against people” and also “Videos or photos that depict non-sexual child abuse, defined as… Repeated kicking, beating, slapping, or stepping on by an adult or animal.”

In the end, this particular child-spanking fetish group left Facebook after they were convinced to do so by an outraged viewer of Keenan’s video, as she explains in this follow-up. But, as she also explains, similar groups still exist on the platform, and will likely continue to do so until Facebook takes a clear stand against them.

Is it legal?

Here, we have to ask the obvious question: why isn’t this illegal? Keenan argues that these real-life images and “workshops” are nothing more than a resource for child-spanking fetishists. As she notes,

The organisers of this event have clearly realised that, as long as they wrap child sexual abuse in a veil of “old fashioned discipline”, fetishistic predators don’t even need to hide the desire to get children naked and beat them on a sexual body part.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0C7GyhR_c-0&t=377s (5:48)

Indeed, a quick search of “spanking” on Facebook reveals there are still several groups that advocate for child spanking. An “adult” spanking group posts a huge number of illustrated and digital images of children being spanked, including this video where the child appears to sigh in pleasure at the end of the clip.

Regarding the groups noted by Keenan, Prostasia has written a letter to the Global Safety Policy team at Facebook but, as of this date, has yet to receive a response. You can read that letter below.


What should be done?

When evidence of real world child abuse is discovered online, simply removing the forum where it is posted isn’t a sufficient response to the problem. That’s why in the case of images of child sexual abuse, there is a legal obligation on Internet companies not just to remove that material but to report it to the authorities as well.

The same considerations should apply to sexualized spanking groups. If a group is simply banned, it’s not hard for its administrators to build a new following using coded language and targeting susceptible demographics. If that’s all that happens, the children and teens participating in this “workshop” are still at risk.

When children are at risk, society has a responsibility to step in.

Stopping child-spanking fetishists online and offline

So how do we stop child-spanking fetishists from posting on Facebook, while also ensuring that we are not just driving them into the shadows?

As Keenan notes in her video, “I do kind of feel like I’m responsible for getting this kind of crap shut down! I certainly can’t just ignore it …Our culture needs to change.”

Obviously, the first thing our culture needs to change is allowing child-spanking fetish groups to thrive under the protection of religious or old-fashioned values. Correlations between corporal punishment and child sexual abuse have been demonstrated in research (see here and here).

Education will also change the culture. The author of this blog has spoken to non-offending child-spanking fetishists. They are quite aware that their actions would cause sexual and physical harm to a child, so they refrain from doing so—just as most people in the world refrain from using another person’s body without their consent. Allowing this topic to become normalized in a conversation about spanking would reduce the number of offenders just through role modeling.

Amplifying the voices of child sexual abuse prevention groups (rather than kicking them off the site for talking about sex, as happened on Tumblr) will also reduce instances of this in our culture.

What’s Facebook’s role?

One of the things that makes the Internet so rich is the diversity of content standards that it allows to co-exist. That’s why adult social networks such as FetLife and vanilla social networks such as Facebook complement each other so well. But child sexual abuse content should not be allowed anywhere.

Facebook’s standards for sexual content—fictional or non-fictional—are much stricter than those of other platforms. Its Community Standards do already contain rules that ban this sort of behavior and imagery.

The problem lies in the standards being applied inconsistently, because the sexually abusive character of the material is not being recognized.

Though some users of Facebook—and other platforms—may support spanking as a form of discipline, platforms and their users share responsibility in ensuring no children are harmed, and that child sexual abuse is not being perpetuated in their forums. This means that they must find a way to prevent the groups from being infiltrated by abusers and distributors of child abuse images.

Because CSA prevention isn’t a soft option.


  1. Greetings Jillian, We met some years ago online and exchanged our experiences and agreed about the hidden long standing cultural acceptance of child spanking that creates adult child spanking fetishists who then self gratify by participating in child spanking in social media platforms and other venues. Educating the general public that child spanking especially where forced nudity is involved even within private family home life by parents is a hidden form of sexual abuse despite past cultural and religious acceptance is the greatest task at hand. That such punishment experiences by a child create trauma including sexual trauma that forms and develops it’s child victims into later adult active sexual abusers gratified through the context of past and still culturally accepted child corporal punishment acts upon children, including parents is a concept still disbelieved by most people. This needs to change. When no child is ever humiliated and spanked in the degrading manner of most past parenting generations of the ages, we will discover that no one will have those seemingly natural sexual desires to spank or be spanked, for one is the result of the other. I am committed to the task of educating the general parenting public about this hidden ignorant at times form of child sexual abuse! I stand ready to support and work with those who understand this psychological phenomenon that lives and harms children yet to this very day.

    1. As to the above comment, your taking it to far. If you even think of spanking children as sexual, whether you hate it or not, your mind is in the gutter. why you would make PRIVATE nudity of a child sexual is beyond me. Is bathing you child sexual assault? No, because its a mind set. Your child needs to be cleans, period. its all how you look at it, and if your looking at anything personal between a child and parent sexual, then thats on you

      1. Not bathing a child incapable of bathing itself would be criminal neglect. By contrast, it’s never a crime to not spank a child.

        Spanking is much less imperative, and thus more impeachable.

      2. Perhaps you are not aware. Most child sexual abuse happens at home. Very frequently by their own parents. Not acknowledging the facts of abuse, is allowing it to continue.

        Now I disagree with the previous poster that the fetish could disappear. I read an assay some time ago claiming that there are nerves connecting the buttocks to the sexual organs, so being stimulated by spanking is very natural, and something that parents need to be aware of.

    2. Well said John. Violence should never be tolerated especially when it’s orchastrated against vulnerable individuals unable to defend themselves such as a child.

  2. “including this video where”–why was there a link to a video of child sexual abuse embedded in this article?

    1. No such video is linked in our article. The videos are Jillian Keenan discussing the problem.

  3. I haven’t seen the group, but gathering families in a conference room so that their children can be undressed and then spanked for a demonstration is very obviously not legal. If it’s not sexual abuse (by law), at the very least it’s physical abuse.

    I therefore disagree that such a workshop was ever going to happen, for the police (which Keenan says was contacted) would’ve shut it down quickly if that was the case. It was most likely just a group of people swapping fetish fantasies… This article feels a bit naive.

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