Finding your place in the world is one of the joys of the internet. As a fairly introverted person, it's always been easier to make friends in spaces where you already...
Category: Sex positivity
Raising Resilient Kids – Teaching Consent, Self-Efficacy, and Boundaries at all Ages – Part 2
Today we’re talking about school-age kids. They’re older, they’re starting to seek more independence in their daily tasks…
Raising Resilient Kids – Teaching Consent, Self-Efficacy, and Boundaries at all Ages – Part 1
There’s no perfect formula
Most, if not all, of us, have children in our lives whom we...
Online ageplay safety tips
Ageplay is a form of role-play in which at least one of the participants adopts the role or mindset of someone younger—a teenager, child, or even a baby. Although...
BDSM can help heal from trauma
BDSM, or Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism, is not usually associated with healing. Instead, BDSM in popular culture is usually portrayed...
Sex, disability, and embracing a second adolescence
We all look back on our teen years at some point in our lives, right? Some of us look back on those moments with a fondness for them; old memories flooding back to us like...
Black women in pornography: an interview with Mireille Miller-Young
“I still remember the exhilaration I felt when I saw my first pornographic image,” Mireille Miller-Young writes in her 2014 study A Taste for Brown Sugar: Black...
How Exodus Cry reinvented the white slavery moral panic for a modern age
Benjamin Nolot is a hero valiantly fighting against moral rot—at least according to Benjamin Nolot. The founder of Exodus Cry believes that pornography is corrupting our...
Sex workers are mothers, too
I am sharing a glass of wine with my child’s best friend’s mother while our children play princesses.
“So how...
Child trafficking narratives are misleading
When most people hear “human trafficking,” they think of kidnapped young cis, mostly white girls sold into enforced sexual slavery by criminal gangs composed mostly of...